Gossip

What do you do when you  are listening to someone who is gossipping ?
I hate persons who don't have anything to say so start talking behind someone who isn't available to prove himself.
I think the best way of stopping these persons is saying frankly not to continue anymore.Some days ago I did such a thing  and that person become red out of her anger up to her ears.It was really funny when she heared  it and didn't talk up to the night.
It made me feel better .What do you think?

Gahar Lake 2

Today I want to talk about the way of this nice lake.
First of all you need to have a good friend from Dorood :D ,the city near there.I'm kidding but it's recommended that you go to Dorood and sleep one night there and then wake up very early in the morning (about 4 o'clock) to climb the mountain , because season of traveling there is summer and in this time you mustn't walk under the sun.
It's about 45 minutes to get from Dorood to the main road of the lake by car.When reaching there you should hire some mules to carry your goods( food, tent, sleeping bag,...) and then a very nice road is in front of you.
Atleast ,you should walk for about 3.45 hours to see the first scenes of the lake , but the road itself is very nice.you can find lots of springs near the way and the sound of the river and the wind blowing there is really calming.
Now you are there.I'll describe it more very soon.

Gahar Lake-1

Last week we went to one of the most beautiful resorts of Iran, called Gahar Lake.this lake is between the Zagros mountains and it has sweet water and you can see kinds of fishes which just live in this situation. Later I'll talk more about the wayof reaching there and the place. But something that I want to mention here is that nice group who helped us to see these nice sineries . They were one of my college's family , very generous , very hospitable and very skillful at traveling in such a way .We were together for 3 days.
The nice part of this family was their old mother who is about 56 years old and comes step by step  all the way with us and cooked lots of delicious food there.

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Generally speaking ,people falls into 2 categories.One  of them do whatever they like to do and the others do whatever the others expect them to do( Is it clear?:D).Which category do you prefer ?
The first group have an independence mind to let them don't pay attention to the others opinion & do what makes them feel comfortable.In this case sometimes they seem impolite because the other ones think they don't listen to them.
In the other hand there is that so-called kind & nice group which have been born just to listen to their friends & do their suggestions & ... To avoid making them angry.
I prefer kind of moderation, because sometimes the first ones are rude and proud of themselves & the second ones are weak and foolish who don't consider their own necessary needs.
But unfortunately , most of the times I fall into the second group & because I dare not to make someone unhappy I do as he/she likes.
What do you suggest me , to stop this bothering behavior?
Thank you.

Security

First of all I owe anybody who visits this blogs daily, one apologize for delay of updating it. These days were somehow busy ones.
And I want to mention that this blog isn't going to be a place for writing my dairy but somewhere for ideas ,happenings,news and everything that I feel useful to talk about with you.
Last two days I was invited to a seminar which was about making your network as much secure as you can to keep your data for your own and don't lose it.They gave a nice example to show the necesity of doing that which you can see it here.
All of you have heared of MercedecBenz company which is the largest and luxerious car producer in Germany.They pay tax for each car they sell, to the government.About 3 years ago tehy started advertising a brand new model.When everyone were waiting for this release ,surprisingly, they saw it looks like the new models of Mitsubishi.So it wasn't something especial for car fans and wasn't been sold as they predict , and the government didn't get the income of taxes they were waiting for and the company face to some serious problems.
It's easy to imagin what had happened .They hadn't done certain protection of their data and Mitsubishi was the company who do benefit of it :D

miss you

When two people get married they start a life under a ceiling. Maybe they had been in love before the marriage or no , they'd just find each other suitable so decided to get married and then gradually find the certain love.
If they live for 1 , 2 , 5 or 10 years it can be a sign of successful selection .I think after this time even if they hadn't been in love but they had get used to this life.
And the worst part of these couple's life is when one of them pass away, it will be almost impossible for the other one to continue.
Because of all these reasons and because I do love Mehrdad I prefer to live as long as he is alive . Possibly , you say it's very soon for you to think of this matter but yesterday was the first day that I didn't meet him and it was terrible.

Disney 1

Once upon a time , there was a little princess living at the end of the world , waiting for a handsome prince riding a white horse , to come and kiss her , to become her husband and make her a happy life.
There was a monster living near around who , despite of his devil appearance ,was very kind and generous.
One day while he was passing around the castle , by chance he saw the princess and from the first glance he felt in love with her , but he wasn't the man with white horse and ...
Yes , you are right .This is the first part of a realy nice story of Disney company , named "SHEREK" .
I gratefully do love this cartoon and it's look to the legends which are never old-fashioned.
What do you think? ;)

8th of July

I don't like to write about political problems in my blog and I won't do it , but some of incidents have been hacked on every Iraninan mind which we can rarely forget them . One of these tragic happenings occured 6 years ago on 8th of July (18th of Tir).
We all know what happened at that tiem so it's better not to review it.
About 15 years ago when the chinease government killed lots of students in Tiananmen square in Beijing, because they were criticizing their way of rulling the country , I thanked God that we are living in an Islamic place which wouldn't hurt it's own citizens out of tehir way of thinking.
But nowadays ,all of our brilliant & genius minds are looking for a way to run out of this damn place to live in somewhere where they can breath and think and act freely as they want!!!

Great chef!!!

Today I was talking to my dad.Nowadays (for 4 months)he is living alone.Always my mom cooks at home so he haven't learned very much .He has a friend whose son got married 2 weeks ago and they invited my dad.Today he said he has invited them with his new bride to pay it back :O
I was shocked of hearing it.when I asked what r u going to serve,surprisingly, he said he is going to cook by hisself and when I asked what are you going to cook he answered he has bought 40 fishes and 15 kilos of rice :O to cook for 10 people.he even doesn't exactly know how to make rice and he was asking me.
I'm just imaginig tonight when all of them come hungry and come back their home more hungry!!!
Peace be upon them :D

Kordish ceremony

Last night I was watching parts of a film called "Beyond the words" .Have you heared of it?Before starting showing that ,they wrote" We tremendously advice you not to see this film if you are under 18 or very softhearted." and you know, this sentence almost make me mad to see what they are presenting.
It was about kind of Kordish people who are living in some parts of Iran,a documentary film.It starts with very beautiful sceneries of Zagros mountain in Iran and then has a look on the native people with those nice dressing, then gradually focus on some old men ,long haired and long beared( specially in white).They were going to have a wiered festival.
This ceremony starts with a kind of dance ,you round yourself again and again,everybody do the same to reach the certain moment,then someone comes and sit on a chair between them,and then another one comes and strikes a niddle with a hammer in his head!!!!but no blood comes out!They show it as a sign of savagery in Iran and at last they said " Look what a ... people they are"
I have a friend who has done some researches on this type of life.I phoned him and heared some other things which was realy nice.
He said these people believe in other forces which have effects on our life and they study on knowing them for years and after a long time they reach to a point which they can say they can do such a thing.When that man is hammering on a head the other man si concentarting and getting help from that forces ,so he pushs his soul out of that certain part of his body,it results in no bloodshed and pain in his head and if he doesn't lose his concentartion nothing will happen ,but if just for a moment he thinks on something else then he will feel the pain and blood will come out and his brain will damage,maybe he dies.
My friend said if you sit on that chair,you know all of these, so you have selfconfidence that you can finish this match.
This is one course of their school and their aim is getting nearer to our creator.
Although I think it's kind of savagery but when I Listened to him I become interested on studying a little more about these forces.If we can't see them we can't say they don't exist. They are all around us and we are able to use them if we want.

Euro2004

Tomorrow is the final of Euro2004 .I think you know that, this match is between Greece & Portugal(who is playing at his home). The funny part is that the bigging match of this cup was held between them too which Greece won Portugal, and now the last game is a review of it.
During these two weeks which the competitions where going on , a great number of Iraninan men was late at work :D(Notice that ,not the women :D) because of the hour of the games which was near midnight.
What's your idea? Who will win?Although Greece is very good but I bet on Portugal.Let's see the future.