Today is May 31th. three years ago I decided to enter the world of weblogs and by finding this blogger.com site and just manging some pages I was there. I remember that day so clearly, I was at work and stopped all my important jobs to search for this new environment and learn working in it. At that moment I decided to write in English to practice my knowledge about this language, in fact it was so hard. At first I should choose my subject,then writing it in a piece of paper at home and edit it, then come to work and type and publish it. Now all these tasks are happening simultaneously ,maybe I've improved in writing in English but I'm still very poor in finding good subjects.
Mehrdad and one of my colleagues were my main encourages and helped me in continuing this job until it became a habit and now I'm really addicted to it.
Up to now I have 397 posts published and about 35000 visitors. With all these kind readers I puff the 3 candles alight in my weblog birthday cake.
Thursday, May 31, 2007
Week-27
Hi sweetheart. How are you?Are you feeling good there?Do you feed enough or need more? Next week when I go to the doctor then I'll find all my questions answers. From now we have entered our third trimester. It means that from now you are only growing and I'm only gaining weight. You can't believe me but I feel my daily improvements in size. Night by night when I look at myself then I found how fast it is.
One of my habits in the day and night is just sitting calm and look into your movements and talk with you. Now I now the times of your movements and it's the biggest pleasure in my life to look at it. Maybe one day when you become mother ,then find what I'm saying.
Last week in the wedding,the music was so loud and you were just turning and turning, I felt you are uncomfortable and went far from the source, but I saw how intelligent you are.
from this week your skin has started thickening. I ask God ,with all my soul, to give you a healthy skin( you know why ;) ).Aha,some thing else,because you are in the amniotic fluid at the moment,so your skin wrinkles and maybe will remain up to 1 month after your birth. I'm feeling the moments that we are in the bath and I'm looking at your wrinkles skin.
Every one says I've become uglier and uglier everyday. It's the only time that I'm happy of becoming ugly because it's a symptom of having a DAUGHTER.
It's said that when a mother enters into her third trimester then the instinct of nesting will increase in her. But at the moment with this house which is always waiting for movement to the new one I can't answer this instinct at all. But your father and I are trying to end up this story ASAP.
At the moment of writing these lines I'm feeling your movements :D Have good times honey. Kissssssssssssssss
One of my habits in the day and night is just sitting calm and look into your movements and talk with you. Now I now the times of your movements and it's the biggest pleasure in my life to look at it. Maybe one day when you become mother ,then find what I'm saying.
Last week in the wedding,the music was so loud and you were just turning and turning, I felt you are uncomfortable and went far from the source, but I saw how intelligent you are.
from this week your skin has started thickening. I ask God ,with all my soul, to give you a healthy skin( you know why ;) ).Aha,some thing else,because you are in the amniotic fluid at the moment,so your skin wrinkles and maybe will remain up to 1 month after your birth. I'm feeling the moments that we are in the bath and I'm looking at your wrinkles skin.
Every one says I've become uglier and uglier everyday. It's the only time that I'm happy of becoming ugly because it's a symptom of having a DAUGHTER.
It's said that when a mother enters into her third trimester then the instinct of nesting will increase in her. But at the moment with this house which is always waiting for movement to the new one I can't answer this instinct at all. But your father and I are trying to end up this story ASAP.
At the moment of writing these lines I'm feeling your movements :D Have good times honey. Kissssssssssssssss
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Eliminate or Adapt
Yesterday a friend called me and advised something new. She said for your special occasion you should change a little more, you should eliminate anything which is bothering you and try to not adapt with them. From the view of her theory, by discarding all the things which is making me sad or angry ,I can reach to a good level of self satisfaction and at the end reaching to internal tranquility. Of course it's a dream for all expecting mothers.
Now when I look deeper I see it's the way all the times I've tried to do. Lots of times ,I've left a place intentionally or stop a discussion by my own to change the environment. But there is a bad point in this behavior. People will call you selfish and deluded. Because they have made that situation and they think it's true so if you eliminate it ,they won't understand you at all.
I think I'm confusing you, maybe you should be in my shoes to find what I'm saying.Any how ,I won't change my manner and I'll do this behavior stronger than before until the opposite is proven.
Now when I look deeper I see it's the way all the times I've tried to do. Lots of times ,I've left a place intentionally or stop a discussion by my own to change the environment. But there is a bad point in this behavior. People will call you selfish and deluded. Because they have made that situation and they think it's true so if you eliminate it ,they won't understand you at all.
I think I'm confusing you, maybe you should be in my shoes to find what I'm saying.Any how ,I won't change my manner and I'll do this behavior stronger than before until the opposite is proven.
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Economical Marriage
The Economist weekly magazine in it's last issue have begun a discussion about the direct relation between Marriage and improvement of living style.
It's counted some reasons which you can see here:
- When two people live with each other then the life costs will decrease out of the shared facilities they use.
- For being successful in work you need to have a good public relation ability, in other words if you don't have this ,then you won't be successful... and obviously this is a case which will help you in finding appropriate spouse.
- When two people got married then the sense of responsibility will increase in them and they will put more effort to have better life style. In fact this common life is an enthusiasm for them to work harder and earn better salaries.
- Married people save their money better than single ones and by this background they can decide bigger decisions.(This portion is 4 for married ones and 1 for singles)
I,myself, am agree with the reasons. At least it's so true for myself and my people around. What do you think? Are you agree or in the convention that marriage will waste all the saved money of the singles?!!!
It's counted some reasons which you can see here:
- When two people live with each other then the life costs will decrease out of the shared facilities they use.
- For being successful in work you need to have a good public relation ability, in other words if you don't have this ,then you won't be successful... and obviously this is a case which will help you in finding appropriate spouse.
- When two people got married then the sense of responsibility will increase in them and they will put more effort to have better life style. In fact this common life is an enthusiasm for them to work harder and earn better salaries.
- Married people save their money better than single ones and by this background they can decide bigger decisions.(This portion is 4 for married ones and 1 for singles)
I,myself, am agree with the reasons. At least it's so true for myself and my people around. What do you think? Are you agree or in the convention that marriage will waste all the saved money of the singles?!!!
Monday, May 28, 2007
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