Orkut

Today i entered the world of orkut friends.It's realy interesting.The idea of making your friend's friend ,your own friend is something new i think.If you are already a member then you'll understand what I mean and if you aren't just let me know ;)

Busy and ...

Maybe you understand that i haven't written in my blog for a few days.The reason is my time which have been full(Is this sentence correct ?)I was realy busy and tired .The worse is my fault which I made at work.Although my boss didn't say anything or at least pretend to it but It was very bad and made me nervouse.Hope these days finish .
Last night we went to Farahzad,one of cool resorts in Tehran,to eat dinner.If you have ever been there you can imagin beds which people are sitting on them and eating tea ,sour milk ,kabab , Dizi .... and smoking, specially GHELYUN which is something like an intertainment for Iraninas.
It was amazing seeing that there is no GHELYUN on beds.The owner said it is illegal.None of us used to smoke so it has no difference for us but i know lots of people who like it and look at it as a habbit not addiction instrument .
I think this decision isn't true.If our police wants to stop smoking ,it must stop delivering addictives ,not GHELYUN which isn't very dengerous.

Dare to criticize

Some days ago, I was going home by bus.It was one of those hot summer days.After a while an old lady got on.From the first step of the bus she started cursing all the passengers.I think she was mad or not in a well-built social situation.
She shouted and said she would smash anybody who comes near to her and surprisingly, everyone tried to keep the safe distance!!!
None of the passengers was courageous enough to stop her.Maybe it happened because they don't like having any trouble , so they all let her curse all of them.
When we expand it to a big society like a country,we'll see if the people of that country are this much conservative which don't criticize any wronge incident, then the leaders and government of that country would do anything they want and sure enough that nobody dare to say anything.
What do you think? ;)

Long day

Yesterday & today are the longest days of a year.During these days we see sun flames more .Ancient Iraninan was in the conviction of getting more goodness from the sun in such a day. They even said if somebody have been born at this day he will be a loyal and honest human because he has the least devilness in his soul.They looked at the sun as the most powerful source of energy and life so they do some traditions for it.
What's your idea to step just about 2000 years back and have a look on their behavoiur at such a day? :D

kindness

Today i heared about something nice.
Is that true which most of us like to get kindness more than giving it to the others?
We usually expect people to be kind enough to us ,say hello , shake hands, even bow , ask about our children health , about our spouse works ... to show that we are important enough for them to pay such a time. But have you ever wondered that if you do the same with others!!!Is their illness,problem , quarrel ,... and all tehir unusual matters in the same importance with what you want from the others?
It's obvious that if you want to earn something you must pay for it and the price of kindness is kindness inadvance. ;)

Internet

From the moment internet come to our home ,gradually takes book place . Unintentionally , I gave my book reading time to amazing windows of World Wide Web .Nowadays I even read newspapers via the net , a usual work for these times .
Possibly you wonder why she is talkingabout it.I just want to say one thing and it's this :"If you are like me , very addicted to gaze at the monitor , just give yourself a chance to READ A GOOD BOOK and get sucha misse dcomfort especially at the end of the day."And if you are thinking why I am saying about it ,your answer is very simple :D Yesterday when I reached home I found that the electricity is off so I wasn't able to do anything but reading!!!

Acting proudly

Yesterday we were invited to someone's home.I like them very much so woke up very excitedly in the morning. I collect some souvenirs from our last trips for them and then make go . When we gpt there I found a cold environment all over the air. I gave the host's daughter my gifts but no thanks!!!She paid no attention to me.She even talked to me very rarely, just the moments she needs something.This kind of behaviour at first, made me very upset.I was realy ready to cry .
But after some moments I thought if she wants not to talk with me it's her problem.SHE will lose the chance of chatting ME ,so the person who should be sorry is her not me.
After this moment I found a kind of relaxation in myself.I enjoyed all times of the party with others but her.
We have a sentence in our religion which says"Act proudly to someone who acts proudly with you!"
Last night will be registered in my mind because I learned a new way of thinking which helps me to enjoy my life more than before.
What do you think? ;)

Phone book

We have a manager ,here at work, who is not favorite at all.None of the employers like to talk with him or do his works unless they have a must to do so.
Yesterday, one of the collegues was talking about him and said that about 1 year ago when this favorite man!!!, was somewhere in the toilet :D , they ran into his room and deleted all his phonebook which was saved on his mobilephone. When I asked what would you say him if he asked the reason he answered we would tell him your mobilephone has some dangerous viruses and because he isn't very technical he would beleive whatever we say.So just guess what happened last year when he saw the empty memory.

Sometimes we are THE VIRUS ,not very harmful but very funny!!!

With no title

Last night my father had a small operation on his back.At first he had decided to do it in Mashhad(our home town) but yesterday suddenly he made his decision and went to the hospital.
I didn't know anything about it.He phoned from the doctor's office and said I'm going into the room!!!!I was really shocked.Our home is about 20 km far from there and Mehrdad (my husband) was going to be late.I know all of these are lame reasons for not going to the hospital ,so I was completely upset all last night.I promised him to come today and I'll certainly make it but at that time , when he needed me me I wasn't there.Even if he had told me yesterday morning I would definitly go there.
My mom and brothers aren't here at the moment and he is all by himself.I'm really shy of myself but the time is gone and I missed last night when he needs my care.
I don't know if you were in my shoes what would you do but some moments in life are so priceless which you cann't never ever back to them and remake them as you desire.
At this tiem I don't want even to look at myself in the mirror . I don't want to face this unkind Somi!

Ainstine

Once in a party a beautiful woman asked Albert Ainstine :"How good it will be if I marry you!" and then continued " I can see our son who is as smart as you and as beautiful as me."
Ainstine though for a moment and then replied :" Please just close your eyes and see what will happen if he is as stupid as you and as ugly as me . "

Conclusion:Don't ask men to marry you because they really think they are SOMEBODY!!!!

Think & Talk

Has it ever happened that you say something and then understand you haven't thought about it before saying and it's been something wrong?
Most of us usually do the same ;) so sometimes we unconciensly break a dear one's heart.It's compensation is much more harder than not making it.What do you think?

Memory reminder!

Why do you like some films or musics more than the others?Maybe they are very good or you like their actress or player or you prefer it's gener.
But sometimes you like something which is not popular at all. For example an old music or a film with just two players.It's not the film or music that attracts you but the memory of first watching it. Maybe it reminds you , your mom, friend etc , who you were watching it together or possibly he/she advised it to you.
So while everyone say" What a terrible music!!!", you just get relaxed and have a nice smile during listening to it.

Two sparrows

Today i noticed to a wiered sound coming from the kitchen.When I looked to the source , I found a very nice incident.A couple of sparrows have chosen our air conditioner chimney as their house.They have filled it with little peices of wood and made it as a soft place for the female one to leave her eggs.When I saw it ,I felt a real happiness deep in my heart. I remember my chilhood which my parents always said if an animal chooses our house to give birth to her children then lots of good things happens for that family.We call it BARKAT in our language(Persian).
I'm realy very thankful of my kind God for everythings that he has given to me and I'm ofcourse waiting for much more , because his kindness is unlimited. ;)

Being honest

Have you ever decided not to tell any lie for a day?
Imagine you have gotten up. You look at the mirrior and say"OK , today I'm the most honest person in the world." and then get ready to go to work.
At first your wife ask you :"Honey , what are you thinking about?" It's hard for you to tell the truth which you have been thinking about her grandma who were nagging all the last night party . So , you answer just "Nothing" and tell yourself I DIDN'T lie ofcourse .
Then you step out and see your neighbor who is washing his car. You look the opposite to pretend that you haven't seen him , because you don't like him and ofcourse you haven't lied again.
you go on and get to work . There is a form on the boared which is about selecting the best employer.You fill it and pass it to your boss and don't tell anything to your collegue because you are afraid of his selection , and still sure you haven't lied up to now.
The day pass very quickly, It's a usual day that was supposed to be one of your best days.
At the end of the day although you are still certain that you have been honest , but you don't feel any self-satisfaction and just wander WHY!!!
What's your idea? ;)

Have you ever felt alone?

Sometimes when you look around to find somebody to talk about everything , you find nothing.have you ever felt like that?
Today ,at work, I was in this case and unfortunately Mehrdad , my husband, wasn't available at phone.I was tired and need someone to be patient enough to listen all my words , but i found nobody there.Although my colleuges are very respectful but it was like this.I was far away from them.

Loving living

Today i read about a chinease astronomer who has predicted a nearly earthquake in Tehran.Like before i was frightened agained and pray to God not to make it.The astronomer predicted the quake out of the shape of the clouds which are over Tehran .They say he had predicted Bam earthquake which about 40000 people died . He said the percentage is about 68% .
You see,it's come very near ,it's more than possible ,it's coming to almost.
We,people living in Tehran, know this situation but still keep on living like before . Maybe because we love living ,and it's my main reason to be frightened.i cannot say there is no difference.YES there is.I love living with my parents,Dear husband,friends,colleuges and everybody who i meet everyday in the streets,shoppings ,etc.And I ask The omnisience God not to leave me alive when my dearest ones are death after the quake.
How sweet is living with your beloved ones!

The wise man

once up on a time a wise man's friend came to him and said I want to inform you of some amazing news.
Man thought for a while and answered :"Is there any benefit of the news for me?"
He answered : "No"
Then he asked again : "Are you sure of what you are saying?"
He naswered again :"No"
For the third time he asked:"Is there anybody who doesn't want me know about it?"
He said:"yes"
After a moment the wise man answered " so why are you flattering news which are not good and you are not sure about them and some body hurts if I know them?"
Man stayed silent and keep on going.


And the wise man never understood that his best friend had sex with his wife!!!