Tuesday, January 31, 2006

Iran vs UN

At the moment we are searching in the internet, working in our work place, watching our favorite films, cooking meals, or maybe like me just nagging about the problems around you :D ; there are some ones who are trying to make Iran situation about nuclear power worse and worse. In the news I read that those European countries were successful in gathering Russia and China acceptance of forwarding Iran file to the UN Security Council. At the moment nothing will happen but maybe they put us on more sanctions and make country like a distorted island even more than before. It can even result in war attacks to the nuclear sites of Iran; it's obvious if they do so, then we can't stop them from attacking to the other parts….. And all this conflicts is for nothing. If Iran agent accepted the world general idea, then we would have our nuclear resources and not any international dispute.

Monday, January 30, 2006

Absence and heart

"Absence makes the heart grow fonder." It's an English phrase which shows that when s.o. /s.th isn't with you for a long time ; you feel you've liked it very much and missed it a lot.
I think passing the time is the reason of this missing, because it makes us forget of bad memories and just remember the good points.
But why should we stay for reaching to that point? Very easily we can enjoy the presence of our friends, our family members or living in our own country or lots of other things which we miss them after losing. Remembering all these wonderful positions can lead us to a more joyful life.

Saturday, January 28, 2006

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Scenery of one of the most beautiful places in Iran. In the road of Gahar Lake you really feel closer to the natural world and regret of not having the chance of seeing these views in your common life.

Responsibilities

… Then the fox appeared.
Fox said: "Hi"
The petite princess turned and said: "Hi"
The fox said: "I'm here, under the apple tree."
Petite princess said: "Who are you? How beautiful you are!!!"
Fox said: "I'm a fox."
Petite princess asked: "Come and play with me, I'm very alone."
Fox replied:" It's impossible, you haven't tamed me yet."
Petite princess asked: "Sorry, what's the meaning of taming?"
…Fox answered: "It means making attraction, at the moment you are a boy like the other thousands for me, and I'm a common fox like the others for you, but whenever you tame me, then we'll need each other and I'll be the only one in the entire world for you."
Little princess said:"… Now I understand. There is a flower who, I think, has tamed me…"
Then after taming the fox, little princess tend to leave. Fox was crying and said:' I'm telling you a secret, the value of your flower depends on the time you've spent for her. You are responsible for your tamed things; you are responsible for your flower…"
And little princess repeated:' I'm responsible for my flower."


This text is flash of "The Petite Princess" by Antowan De Saint Exupery, This is my favorite part which is indirectly saying us we are responsible for the things we have spent time for them. We are not allowed to leave them after that time. Now I see why my older friends are my better ones, both of us have tamed each other in a plenty of time and now we can't forget all the past.

Tuesday, January 24, 2006

A Story

In the very past days, there were two brothers. One of them was working for the king and just obeying his orders and the other one was working on the land all the day to earn very little money for just keeping himself alive.
One day, they met each other. The rich asked the poor: “ Why don’t you come to the king to work for him and live comfortably the whole life?”
The other one answered:” Why don’t you work on the land to give up your cheap job for the king and live proudly the whole life?”

The resource of this story is Persian, by Saadi. Do you remember the story? Please just tell me.

Social Relations

Who are the most honest people in the world? According to official statistics of UN, Japanese people are in the first ranking and the second and forth place belongs to some other oval eyed countries and then we will see some Europeans as the third and fifth to tenth place and then Canada and USA and ……… so where is Iran? This report says that Japanese people never understand what is dishonest, it’s not defined in their minds so they are not able to not tell the truth, and because of that they don’t have very good social relationship .The reason is clear, when you can’t tell lie, you can’t bear someone who is not matched with you and you straightly tell him your opinion, so this relationship will be cut. But here in Iran, we are always bearing people for some other reasons: He is my boss, so I shouldn’t tell him how rat he is. He is my cousin, so I shouldn’t tell him how tight-fisted he is. She is my colleague, so I shouldn’t tell her she is always nagging (saying these adjectives doesn’t means that I’m perfect and just other people have problems). You see, always the dependencies; not the reality; makes our relations level.

Monday, January 23, 2006

SMS burglary

Last week something noble happened in SMS history of Iran. If you are living in Tehran I'm sure that you have received an SMS which said you can participate in a charity found by sending a SMS to a certain number and then depends on your order they will reduce your account by next month mobile bill, up to this point it was normal but the matter which made lots of complaint was as it's described below.
There were lots of SMS with other contents but asking people to send SMS to that number, for example some of them says by doing this we will send you your horoscope or a joke or … By this tools they encourage people to participate in this charity plan but involuntarily L I think it's really kind of burglary.
And another matter happened by this incident, Lots of people when did this false unwontedly and saw that they have paid this money ,forward this SMS for their friends to make them fall into this mistake, maybe thinking that they are not the only loser feel them better .But they never thought about the cost they were paying; which was losing those friends who rely on them and by this background send the SMS.
Here is Iran, nothing is impossible :D

Sunday, January 22, 2006

Women in stadiums

Again disappointed. I heard in the news that Saudi Arabian women who are living very restricted and can't do lots of common jobs in the society , with some certain conditions, are allowed to go to the stadiums and watch their favorite matches. This certain conditions is being there with one of their Maharem;It means brother, father or husband for example. I love watching football but for two reasons I have never seen it live in a real stadium, first reason is my sex which is not allowed to enter there and second is the people, who are not used to see a woman in the stadium, so they can't stop themselves from doing lots of bad works. But we should start from some point. At least we can make some place for married couples; which is done in the cinemas; to separate them from others and let poor women watch the match :D It's not a good way indeed but better than nothing. Am I right?

Saturday, January 21, 2006

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Not necessarily all the flowers smell good, some of them are very dangerous. Everything has good and bad ones; it's true for human beings too ;)
By the way, these cactuses are very nice,aren't they?

Friday, January 20, 2006

Iran climate

There are some few countries that have all kinds of weather climate, I mean you can see all four seasons there and my beloved Iran is one of them.
It's very interesting that when Tehran is snowy you can have sunbath in Kish island. Actually all the year the warmest and coolest place of Iran have 40-degree difference in average.
I think this natural chance could be an opportunity for inviting tourists to Iran. It just needs some propaganda and some effort to make facilities for their stay time and then just earning money, but unfortunately....

BBC filtered

It’s 10:15 Pm, Thursday 18th January 2006, I’m checking mails and then going to read www.bbc.co.uk/persian, a message appears which says “ Dear user, you are not allowed to visit this page, according to Islamic Republic of Iran rules, it’s forbidden”. It means that BBC is also filtered.
It was impossible so I checked it again and again but no success to open it. When you are addicted to visit a site daily and then for no reason you are forbidden what do you feel?
Our government (this OUR word means Iranian government not mine) fears of internet because he thinks that whenever people’s knowledge reaches to a certain level they won’t allow their life continue so he just wastes millions of dollars to filter thousands of sites but they will never understand that if you ban someone from doing something he will become more eager to do it, so this filtering could result into some kind of advertising for the users to find new illegal ways.
Besides all of these, I want my BBC; ………Sigh

Wednesday, January 18, 2006

Missing friends


Usually when you lose something, you will find how precious it was for you. It's almost true for everybody. When we have it ,never think how lucky we are and when we lose it, suddenly wake up and regret for the days of having it.
This week it exactly happened for me, for a while I wasn't with my friends and never understood how much I've missed them but when I see them again then found that this interrupt was a great deal. Actually you should be very fortunate to have good friends and I'm one of those ones :D

Friday, January 13, 2006

Perspolis-Bayern munich

Today is the football match between Perspolis from Iran and Bayern munich from Germany, unfortunately I can't see the match ; it's very easy to predict the result but don't forget something, no matter what the result is , this long step which Perspolis have taken to reach his goals of improvements is adorable. They all know they are losing the game but for getting the experience of feeling greater than before, they accepted to play the game.
.... And something else about the match, according to the plan announced before, at the first 5 minutes of the match the goalkeeper of Perspolis will be Mr. Abedzadeh ,who is the hero of goalkeeping in Iran forever and they are celebrating his retirenment by this match. It will remain in Mr.Abedzadeh and all his fans that his last game was infront of Bayern munich and it will make him always good memories of his retirenment. It's a nice job indeed.
I hope Perspolis lose the match with a good result ;here good result means very little difference between amount of the goals.

Thursday, January 12, 2006

Snow


Tehran is snowy today. This white colour is a messenger of nice spring and delicious summer fruits. Thanks God for giving us his kindness.

Ghorban Mobarak

Today is Ghorban Eid in Iran and most of the Muslim countries. On this day those Hajji’s who are in Mecca now, kill a sheep, a caw or a camel; depends on their wealth condition; as a part of their Hajj ceremony.
I haven’t ever been in Saudi Arabia, but I love one thing about being there. In front of the Kabeh everybody are Muslims, no difference between Shiah and Sunni. They are all the same, no rich – no poor, no black – no white, no man- no woman, you won’t see any such discriminations there. They are all human beings who are looking at that holy cube as a symbol of their generous God and just worshipping him. This sense of unity is a power of energy and I’ll go there one day to prove my judgments.
…. And one thing else, all today I was at home alone and just wasting time by doing housework’s. I’m not really a house woman, I can’t even stay one day at home. It makes me kind of useless feelings. I don’t know weather it’s good or bad but it’s the fact.

Tuesday, January 10, 2006

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This is a view of a modern city, the symbol of that city is shown in the pic and if you look more carefully you will find Somi,taking the photo.

Watching football

At the moment I'm in workplace and we are watching Perspolis- Pass football match with my colligues ,it's very exciting to watch football in a crowded place.Ofcourse I'm a Pass fan today :D

If you are living in MiddleEast and have installed Satellite reciever so you are able to watch MBC4 channel from Saudi Arabia. This channel is showing a seri which is named The Joe Millionar. In this series the director choses a very handsome man and introduces him as this month Millionar and then in an advertisement asks for sexy,beautiful,educated women who like having chance of making frienship with Joe and then 7 of them are chosen to participate in the final portion. From this moment the main seri starts and in each part one of those girls spends 2 days with Joe and then Joe selects the best one. At this moment the director comes and usually says that this Joe isn't the millionar one ,if the girls wants him for money she will leave him and if she realy loves him she will stay.
I like this serie because it made the players,except Joe, to be honest.This is something noble for watch.Please just for one serie have a look at it.

Sunday, January 08, 2006

Remarriage...

We have a 75 year old friend who is a professional lawyer, really expert in his job & with very good general knowledge. Last year his wife died at age 65 and he started his alone life. But surprisingly I heard that 1 month after his wife's death; he's gotten married again with someone who is 25 years younger than him.
At that moment, regardless of all my respects for him, I felt great hate, because in my opinion his marriage was kind of betrayal to his ex-wife and at that age he isn't allowed to make a new mom for his 5 children.
Now, after passing that time, I'm looking in a different way. Maybe my expectation was very high and cruel. He had lived with his ex-wife a whole life full of love and now when she is gone it's very much to ask the children to take care of him and even more, to be a companion of conversation for him. Maybe after her death he shouldn't be bind to live with just her memories until death. His right is being alive and live like the others. People's talks behind him are not as important as the fact that he is not alone anymore.
What do you think?

Saturday, January 07, 2006

Vancouver

Some days ago I was talking with a relative who is living in Canada and now is in Iran for the New Year holidays. She is in Vancouver with her husband and 3 wonderful children.
She was only inviting us there and courage us for making our application forms ASAP and describing the beauties, especially those for Vancouver.
One of the nice things she was pointing was the attitude of the people. She said you will never find someone who asks about your age or religion. These two questions are assumed as very rude ones and one another interesting fact of living there was that although she is working from 9am to 2 am!!!! everyday but she never feel exhausted ,because their work place is full of joy, something which is rarely found in Iran.
I realy desire to have a visit from there :D please plan it dear Mehrdad

Thursday, January 05, 2006

Leaving

I'm used to spend end of the week holidays with my parents. Usually I stay there till Saturday morning and then go to my home for 5 days and again the same story. Mehrdad has accepted this and whenever we don't do it he can see I've missed them alot and we will go there between the week.
But this week it wasn't like before.All over our house was full of Yaser packages who is going back Malaysia tomorrow.Mom was just making him easy foods to make herself sure that he will eat local food there rather than those untasty malay foods and the bell keeps on ringing times and times. Most of his friend's parents bring money for their children and asked him for carrying and ..... I see everybody are rushing but this sense of life just made me more sad, he is leaving but I'm here and will see my parents alone days with worried eyes for their boys.
There is no way left,life is going on and ofcourse not in your wished rolls.

Wednesday, January 04, 2006

I don't know.

If somebody ask you a question and you don't know what is he talking about, PLEASE don't answer him and cause future problems.
It happened for me, I had some important files in my old incredimail( a graphical version of mail softwares like outlook) and I made it as my default mail client , till the moment yahoo stopped his free POP3 service and all those mails remains on that harddisk.
They were deadly important for me so I went to a friend who is expert in hardware and asked for help. He surely answered that there is no way to retrieve data and you should either print them or leave them there and ofcourse I chose the second way.
After 3 years , now ,when I understand how this outlook works ,I now all that data is available on that harddisk if it's working.
That day ,my friend instead of answering "I don't know" just cover his ignorance by putting me away of the subject.

Tuesday, January 03, 2006

New ones

Recently in the place that I'm working ,lots of new friends have joined the world of weblogs. I hope they will be persistent enough to keep on writing at least twice a week and improve their skills of impressing themselves. Welcome you all!!!
… Something else, I've decides to put a photo once a week in order to make my blog more interesting, not always the personal ones but usually that ones which have been given by my own camera. I think it'll make you feel better while visiting the site. Please inform me of your additional suggestions.
… And something else, yesterday was my younger brother birthday. Congratulations Jacksaran!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Monday, January 02, 2006

These Chinease people

Yesterday I was with two Chinease man,They were acting very friendly and realy injoying their visit from Iran. We talked about lots of things ,they said Iraninan girls are very beautiful that you can just close your eyes and pick one of them and be sure she is prettier than your wife:D (He has seen just Chinease women in his life) even he has put their picture as his screensaver :o.
......And last night I heared a very good news about my brother, Congratulation!!!!!! I never though before that you are thinking about your future.