Mehrdad is managing a 3 day trip for next week. Last night he was talking about his plans. I talked about ticket prices and found his calculation is less than mine. I was thinking about the reason of my mistake (in these cases I'm always the one who made mistake, his math is better than mine honestly), but he said he hadn't count any ticket for Rozana and desires to go without her !!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't believe what he said even now because Rozana and he are praying each other.
Today morning when we were coming to work, Rozana asked his father to hug her into the kindergarten but Mehrdad wasn't feeling good and said will do it tomorrow, Rozana came and kissed her with eyes full of tears and accepted. Really she will be ill if doesn't meet Mehrdad for a certain time...
Lots of couples go to travel without their children. I hear it a lot, but I, myself never ever can be satisfied of such a thing...
What do you think? Am I right or wrong? Should we go alone for the sake of Rozana's health(Because of warm weather Mehrdad says maybe Rozana will be suffered) or should we cancel the trip? I'm doubtful.
8 comments:
Hi
I think you are Right .
chon safr daste jamei hal mide va be nazaram age Rozana joon ro nabarid agha Mehrdad ro nemidoonam vali be Shoma aslan khosh nemigzare . Shak nakonid ke hagh ba shomast .
Pirooz bashi va sabz
Hi again
Albate hamishe goftam ke behtarin 2ste man tooye 2nyaye majazi Shoma boodin , va khosh halam ke 2bare in 2sti dare be shokoofaii mirese , khosh halam ke 2ste khoob va ba maloomati mese Shoma daram , alan update kardam , khosh hal misham ke nazaretoon roo darbareye neveshteye tazam bedoonam
pirooz bashi va sabz
HI , I think U are RIGHT this time.
Good luck
Hi Somisahar .
I have mixed feeling. Sometimes if you over protect and pamper your child then you will affect her emotional growth. When she grow into adult she my find difficult to adjust to adult world. So she needs to be train to learn to deal with world at young age and so she must be independent. But , I don't know what age is right for this training. Is she too young ? Well maybe it should start at age of 7 or 8.
i am not in your shoes but if i were you i would accept,maybe Mehrdad needs to be alone whit you,i think it is good for rozana too this matter that you won't enjoy can be true because you yourself don't want to enjoy!think about what i say,otherwise this is iranian atittude that they think every time they and their children should be together if now you can't go on a trip without her be sure that in future you don't let him to travel without you
Unfortunately you are right KhaleSanaz :(
Hi
khob belakhare tasmim gerefti chekar koni ? miri ya mimooni ? be ma ham ke sar nazadi o nazar nadadi , vali man hamchenan montazere rahnamaiiha va nazaratet hastam , faghat heif ke englisham khoob nist vagarna shayad bishtar tahvil migerefti
Pirooz bashi va sabz
yes my dear friend,many actions that we have never done is because of frightening,then obey what is your right today till you can respect to her rights in future!
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