Saturday, May 03, 2008

BenjaminAli

Yesterday I heard a true story which is interesting to be written here. Just pay some moments for reading it:
An Iranian engineer is living with an American wife for more than 11 years.The man is one of those good husbands who never goes drunk, uses drug or goes out with girls. All these behaviors are good points in his wife's mind comparing him with Amirecans who do these jobs regularly. Anyhow, they love each other but there were a tiny problem in their life which day by day got bigger and there weren't any solution: the woman wasn't able to be pregnant. They tested lots of solutions, even thought about new methods of using stranger sperms but everyone said it's impossible for you having a child.
... they were in love and didn't want to get divorce for such a reason so decided to adopt a child. After lots of searches and requests ,a case was found in Iran. They bought tickets and wife came for the first time here for the sake of a nice 3 month old child who were called BenjaminAli from then. They signed letters and named all their properties for him instead of being qualified for adopting... also when they went to the USA, the mother of the wife named 50000$ for Benjamin . His persistence made their life so joyful and after 3 months...... what do you think was happened? !!!

The wife felt dizzy and when consulting with the doctor surprisingly she was pregnant!!!!
Now another boy is born. It means that they have 2 little angels but the most beloved one is Benjamin, because they believe his nature gave the atmosphere of parenting another child in that home.


It was just a true story, but what would be the case if it was happening here in Iran with an Iranian couple and a traditional mother-in-law .I'm sure your answer will be it depends on the one who has problem. If the husband had a problem in making her wife pregnant then suddenly a romantic life would begin and they would accept to adopt a child(most of the times a daughter) ,but in the other case.... in most of the times they would divorce and the man would be a father living with new wife very romantically!!!!!!!!
This is the fair rule in my country which is not written anywhere but ratified in people's minds.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

vay parid ,,,,
gofte boodam che niniye khoshgeli dari beboosesh az ghole man ,,,
khoshhalam ke mibinametoon
be omide didar

Hiva said...

Somi jan very happy story, only one thing. I don't think "American" husband get drunk, use drug or go dating girls behind their wifes regularly. It's kind of unfair..humans are humans you can find good/bad everywhere :)